It is with sadness that I announce the passing of fellow blogger Rocker. Although not a very active blogger, he was a follower of my blog and we met offline and developed a great friendship.We got connected by both our love for the arts and although he was more inclined to the Rock/Gothic lifestyle, this did not stop us from actively supporting local art.We do not understand death but wherever

I hanged out with my friends yesterday and the topic of the ' non-wedding' in Mombasa came up( I am working on a detailed post on that story).One of my friends argued that increased gay visibility and openness sometimes incites murderous responses as was seen in Mombasa. He reckons that even some of us who a continuous revolving door of in and out of the closet will face gay-bashing in our

Out clubbing on Friday night, I went out on limb by introducing my boyfriend as 'my boyfriend' to this lady who was an old acquaintance. I had assumed that she knew that I was gay.What followed was an hour of being engaged in the usual banter about being gay and what is wrong with it etc.What surprised me though was her conclusion that I cant be happy being gay since I 'act straight' whatever '